Infidelity is devastating.
It’s one of the most devastating things a marriage can face.
“Where do we go from here?”
“I don’t think our marriage can survive this.”
“What about the kids?”
It’s like you’ve been hit by a train and your life is shattered.
If you’re in this situation, you need a safe and neutral place to process your feelings and learn to rebuild trust.
There’s no right or wrong response to the discovery of an affair.
If you decide to try and save your marriage, pat yourself on the back for having the courage to hang in there.
If you don’t think you can stay, take your time and make sure that leaving is really what you want.
Either way, your best bet at healing is by allowing the person who hurt you to help you recover.
Don’t trust your marriage to a therapist who does not have specialty training in this area.
Counseling can help the person who hurt you help you heal.
It can also help you understand the possible dynamics in the marriage that set the stage for an infidelity.
You can rebuild trust and learn to build accountability.
Counseling can save your marriage or help you end it in a healthy way.
The minute you found out you couldn’t think about anything else.
You might not even be able to function.
That’s ok, Just give me a call, I’ll help you process what your feeling and what you want your next step to be.
Have you hurt the person you love the most?
For counseling & therapy in Colleyville, TX or online throughout Texas and Florida, contact Linda Miller-deBerard, LCSW today.
Call (817) 909-1820 now and make an appointment. I’ll help you invite them to therapy, and we’ll find out in a healthy way if your marriage can survive.